I have been given the opportunity for the journey of a lifetime - to volunteer in orphanages of Southeast Asia. While traveling and volunteering in Nepal and Thailand, I hope to contribute significant research to the field of children's human rights. The children of these countries suffer unbearable realities of human rights violations through child labor, bonded slavery, and sexual exploitation. As work for my graduate thesis, I am researching the organizations that exist to return these unfortunate children to their childhood.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Updates

Sawadee Khaa (spelled wrong, but means hello!)!!! I can't believe how quickly these several weeks have passed, and how much I have learned and experienced. Most importantly, I've realized how much the children of AmaGhar mean to me, and that I am not ready to leave the joy and fulfillment of working with them. After much thinking and planning, I have been able to register for part-time student status (working on my thesis), and return to AmaGhar this Saturday! I don't need to say how excited I am!!!

Volunteering in Thailand has been amazing as well. The children at the orphanage are so much fun, and so eager to learn! Their art is amazing - they will draw and paint for hours. I have great pictures, and hope to post them soon. They are all rescued street children, flourishing in their amazing home. They have all worked so hard to construct the buildings, literally built with their own hands, with pieces of plywood and tin. Clearly everything is very basic. All the kids contribute with chores and responsibilities. Their amazing personalities make the sweltering heat a bit more bearable! And, I love the fact that they have puppies!!!

I've also been teaching English with Jennryn at the resort, which we are so lucky to call home (beach, pool, a bunny farm, palm trees everywhere!). It's been so hard to get out of living in "survival mode" of Nepal, and relax with so many luxuries! We teach English to the restaurant staff and have had such a blast! Jennryn and I work amazing as a team, but also laugh endlessly, so there is never a dull moment. Yesterday we filmed our soap operas that we had our teams create - HILARIOUS!!! We had them write brief scripts in English, and then act them out, so they could see and hear themselves speak English. When Jennryn and I decided not only to direct, but also star in the dramas, it just added a whole new dimension!

Today we had a charade/scavenger hunt with English words. One of the descriptions was to "find red food." It wasn't until after the game was over that Jennryn and I realized one of my team members ate every piece of red food in the room, so the other team couldn't win!!! Such a smarty!!! He had apple cores and watermelon rinds all over the table!!

We ended class with an amazing round of "English Aerobics"! On the board we wrote hand, foot, up, down, left, right, turn around. Jennryn and I took turns leading the group in crazy actions using these words. We were lucky enough to have music and a camera!!! Hmmmm....maybe my calling isn't working with children....maybe it's acting as a soap opera actress and teaching aerobics!

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Arrival in Thailand!!!

I've sadly left my family in AmaGhar and am now in Thailand. It is amazing to be at a beach resort, yet I can't help but miss Nepal :) I am staying with my friend Jennryn, so wonderful to see her! We are teaching english to the resort staff, and also working at a child development center for street children. I had such a great time yesterday getting to know the kids, playing Red Rover, running around in the dirt! And, to and from the development center, we took motorbike taxis!!!! A little frightening at first, but sooooo fun! The traffic is nowhere near comparable to Kathmandu, so it wasn't as scary as riding motorbikes in Nepal! I wish I had more time here! These two weeks are going to fly by....

Sunday, July 27, 2008

back to the living!

I have literally been sick in bed for the past seven days. I caught a bacterial infection from poorly prepared food, not from AmaGhar, but from eating out in Kathmandu. I'll spare you the details of disgusting symptoms, but needless to say, it's been an awful week. Mid-week, after a continuous high fever, Bonnie took me to the doctor. We thought that from my loss of fluids I would need an IV, but I was glad to find out I was only partially dehydrated, so the IV wasn't needed. I was given rehydration salts (nasty taste!!!) to drink, and antibiotics.

I was just so relieved to find out it wasn't my appendix or something major. I have never felt such incredible pain in my stomach like that before. The entire house has been so sweet in taking such good care of me. Adelaide has been waiting on me night and day, always making sure I'm ok. There's even a drawing on my door from all the kids, saying they miss having fun with me, and hope I get better soon. The poor house mothers have been so upset, trying all their traditional medicines. The past few days I've been trying to go outside, do some laundry, or be active in some way. But, each time a house mother would walk me back inside, and insist I need more rest. After feeling like death for a week, I woke up this morning like a new person! The kids said it was like I was on a video game that suddenly added power to my body :) It felt so wonderful today to hang out with the kids, get back to my reading groups, and eat dinner with my hands again - I'm back!!! One of the girls just came in my room to say good night, and said she is so happy to see me smiling again. I love my AmaGhar family!!!!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Don't make me pull over!!!!

This morning on the micro, as I was making mental notes of amusing stories, I was transported back to thoughts of my childhood. There was an argument on the micro between the conductor and a passenger with a child on his lap. I couldn't understand what was going on (bit of a language barrier!), but I assumed the two were arguing about not paying for a child who doesn't use an actual seat. Suddenly, I felt as if I were on a family trip from my childhood. I smiled as I compared my arguing siblings, to the two men arguing with each other. At first I ignored the incident, but as the voices raised, so did the eyes of everyone on the micro. Then, the driver, chimed in. I could not understand how the driver heard anything, as the argument was on the back of the bus. It was as if my own parents had been transported to the front, having those "invisible eyes and ears" that always knew what was going on. I remembered how my parents would take turns saying, "Stop arguing! Don't make me stop this car and pull over!" And at that exact moment, the driver of the micro pulled over! I was waiting for the conductor to push the man out the door, but instead the rest of the bus chimed in to the argument. The passengers went from silent onlookers, to a competition as to whom could shout louder! I couldn't do anything but laugh at this moment. One man offered his own money for the arguing pair, but his hand was shoved aside. The driver shouted something that seemed very impressive, because after that point, the bus started moving again and nobody spoke a word. I was dying to ask someone what the argument was actually about, but I was afraid of making noise in the instantly silent bus :)

Friday, July 18, 2008

Fun facts continued!

9) There is no need for seatbelts on the micro because everyone is smashed into the bus like sardines.
10) When washing clothes, the best replacement for the spin cycle is stomping on your clothes in the soapy water.
11) Do not be startled by loud booming sounds, as they could be explosions of any kind - a tire blowng out, or a bomb!
12) Do not leave home without your surgical mask - it helps lessen the sting of the aromas of sewage and piles of garbage.
13) When in doubt, smile and laugh!
14) Toilet references are not #1 or #2, but instead short toilet and long toilet. No matter the age, a child and/or teenager will openly explain which will be happening, when asking to be excused from the room.
15) Cows, goats, dogs, chickens, and ducks have the right of way, not pedestrians.
16) Umbrellas are useless in a monsoon downpour.
17) Horns do not really mean get out of the way, but rather, ready or not here I come!
18) We are fortunate at AmaGhar to have a "neighborhood choir." Every night, promptly at 9, the frogs begin croaking, then the birds, ducks, chickens, and crickets chime in. The dogs start barking one by one, but then erupt into what sounds like hundreds. Our neighbor is friendly enough to chime in with about a half hour of hocking mucous outside the window. Not to be forgotten are the cows and goats, trying their best to be heard above the rest of the choir. Just in case we missed the nights' festivities and sweet melodies, the choir always provides an encore every morning, promptly at 5am. On special occassions, our neighbor not only hocks, but vomits as well.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

P.S.

I just added new pictures from today. There are some of my kindergarten class, and then, two shots that Adelaide got of me on the micro! It's at the point when I was able to hang on the inside, so the pictures aren't at the point of insanity :)

getting braver, or just plain stupid?!

We are once again experiencing an extreme petrol shortage. Vehicles are parked in double lines, for what seems like miles. People wait 12-24 hours just to get the small amount of gas they are allowed. People are definitely sleeping overnight in these lines, or simply not driving at all. Needless to say, transportation has been getting difficult. On our way home today, Adelaide and I realized we could be waiting a long time for our last micro back to AmaGhar. As a micro was pulling away, we heard the conductor shout for our stop. We started running alongside and realized there were NO seats. We jumped on the edge, holding on to the rail, hanging OUTSIDE OF THE MICRO. We both looked at each other with fear in our eyes, saying, "should we do this?!" Before we had a chance to think, the micro started driving, and we were hanging on the outside! Other people jumped on behind us, so we actually had a row of people hanging behind us- absolute insanity!!! We were laughing out of fear and amusement. Once a few people jumped off, not wanting to ride outside the bus, and it was just us on the railing with the conductor, we had a blast! The wind blowing in our faces, hanging on for our lives as the bus swerved around cows and potholes, hoping our sweaty palms would hold tight.....so many feelings at once. As if there weren't enough going on, then it started to rain! I was shouting out bus stops with the conductor and he was laughing, and eventually the whole bus. The passengers were looking at me and Adelaide as if we had lost our minds, but when they saw our continuous laughter, the giggles became contagious. Once seats were actually available, I didn't want to sit down - I was having too much fun!!!! We are now contemplating if hanging on for dear life, like monkeys, on a moving bus, is more thrilling than bathing with elephants.